Björn VW | NYC Wedding & Event Planner

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TO FIRST LOOK OR NOT TO FIRST LOOK

For every couple, their wedding day is the monumental cornerstone in their lives as they lovingly exchange vows to embrace the journey of becoming husband and wife. An image forms in your mind of what that day will unfold, envisioning your radiant self in a stunning designer gown amidst exquisite decor and all the intricate details that make a wedding magical. Yet, occasionally, a couple may opt to break away from age-old customs, such as THE FIRST LOOK, opting for the groom to witness his bride for the very first time as she gracefully walks down the aisle, seeking that raw and authentic reaction from her soon-to-be husband (which is truly a beautiful sentiment). Nonetheless, this choice can sometimes lead to challenges and heartaches due to misunderstandings and insufficient planning.

A FIRST LOOK is when the couple see each other in their wedding outfits for the first time. The groom faces away, the bride comes up and taps him on the shoulder. They see each other, smile, kiss, share a moment, and so on.

Photo by: LH Photography + Film

Benefits of a First Look on Your Wedding Day

Planning a wedding day that promises to be long and eventful? Consider incorporating a first look to ensure you have ample time to truly enjoy every moment. Many couples overlook the impact of not structuring their day efficiently, which can lead to complications in other aspects of the wedding.

Bridal Portraits

When doing your first look, that would lead into couple portraits, leaving you and your soon-to-be husband at least a half hour with you and your photographer for photos and that’s done!

Photo by: Samantha Clarke Photography

Bridal Party Photos

This session offers you the chance to effortlessly capture all the lovely moments with your bridal party before the ceremony begins, ensuring a smooth transition into the celebration.

Family Portraits

Planning this can be challenging, especially when dealing with a large family. It's crucial to be proactive in gathering everyone needed for photos. Avoid relying solely on your photographer or coordinator to locate family members, as they may not recognize who to look for. Guests often get caught up in the festivities, unaware they're needed for pictures. Brides, already exhausted from a long day, can find this particularly stressful. Being prepared and communicating clearly can help streamline this process and ensure a smoother experience for all involved.

Photo by: Joseph Lin Photography

FIRST LOOKS are particularly crucial, especially when your wedding is scheduled in two distinct locations. It becomes essential to consider traveling time, taking into account the possibility of some family members arriving late, which could further elongate the proceedings. Being aware of these factors and planning for them accordingly can significantly influence the flow and outcome of your entire day.


Thank you for reading!

Until next time,

Ciao!

Björn VW

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